Andy wasn't my son though I loved as if he was, my heart aches for his mom and dad and the pain they feel at losing him. Andy was my son in law & my heart breaks for the unbearable sadness my daughter Elayne, his wife of just 23 days, is enduring. My heart also goes out to one who doesn't realise why everyone is so sad, who doesn't miss Andy as we all do, who doesn't have memories to recall for comfort and who doesn't know how much he was loved by the lovely man no longer with us. Michael's daddy was taken before he had chance to really know him and that is the saddest part of all. You will know your daddy Michael because he was loved by so many people and though you see us cry and will wonder why you will see us laugh too as everyone shares their memories of your daddy with you.